Hey Allie, I really love that name. The girl I used to crush on really hard had that as her nickname and it was an option of mine when deciding on a name but I thought it'd be weird to name myself after someone I really liked. Sorry, I know that's probably irrelevant but she always come up in my mind when I hear that name lol...
I'm really sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, I hope you're coping well.

She seemed like a very caring and great human being, I'm sure she loved you very much. Are you away from your Dad now? He doesn't seem like that great a person. The good thing is that you're living as you; a woman. I admire you for that! We're all here for you and you have our support. Oh, and welcome.