Transgendered? Or Homosexual?

[Rachael]

when they find out thier girlfriend has a penis... different story

As well it should be.  Look, if you want to play, I'm all for play.  I do want to know what playground I'm in to begin with, it tends to make a difference.

And its not sexuality, not morality, its mechanics. 

I do so love to go down on girls, I've done boys too, I have liked that on occasion, but its not like doing girls.  To lie to me is to deprive me of my favorite sexual activity.  Had I known to begin with, I might well have gone ahead and played, but I hate being lied to.

is had the same as having?
is it a different story?
R >

[Nero]

just seen this.

Transgendered all the way.

I could never be a lesbian because I'm no chick and the mere thought of being a 'man with another man' makes my stomach churn.

[janetcgtv]

Sorry I can't choose just one.
Because I'm born male instead of being born cis female
I am both trans and gay

[alabamagirl]

I'm a lesbian trans girl, so...

[Allyda]

I'm a lesbian trans girl, so...

Same here, I'm a lesbian transgender woman which makes it very hard to make a choice with just the two choices given.

Allie

[Evienne]

I'm not homosexual, but I'm just saying why couldn't you be both? Transgendered is not a set in sexual orientaion. Technically "Transexual" is the orientation and transgendered is a whole other thing, but I wish not to digress. To late though. But anyways, you can be transgendered and still heterosexual, bisexual, asexual, metrosexual, pansexual, so why not homosexual?

[Pandion]

I am surprised so many of you would chose to be trans all over again. Especially in this day and age, being gay is much much easier thing to come to terms with and live with than being transgender. As you all know, being trans is really hard and you would choose it again? You are stronger people that I am.

I live in hope that one day my choice would change, but as I feel now, for me, the less "otherness" I could have, the better.

[Pandion]

the mere thought of being a 'man with another man' makes my stomach churn.

Presumably if you were gay, this wouldn't be the case?

[OreSama]

I'd rather be a gay man than a straight transman.  I already like guys more than the average straight guy, but not enough to call myself bisexual since I really only like looking at attractive guys, and I hate having the wrong parts so much.

[FalseHybridPrincess]

Actually im both of  these

Id  rather be a cis lesbian

[alabamagirl]

I am surprised so many of you would chose to be trans all over again. Especially in this day and age, being gay is much much easier thing to come to terms with and live with than being transgender. As you all know, being trans is really hard and you would choose it again? You are stronger people that I am.

I live in hope that one day my choice would change, but as I feel now, for me, the less "otherness" I could have, the better.

For me, it's not even an issue of being strong or choosing an easier path. Even if I were neither gay nor trans, there are still a ton of other things I am that would make me just as weird and ostracized from my local society. I'm pretty much "other" all the way across the board. Also, where I live, gay people are still treated like they have the plague.

[Jess42]

Wow, another old thread reborn. I am transgender, nothing will change it. But I know myself inside better than a lot of cisgender people do. That is one thing that we have an edge on over cis people, being trans we know more about gender and how it is way more than just boys have a penis and girls have a vagina.

I am surprised so many of you would chose to be trans all over again. Especially in this day and age, being gay is much much easier thing to come to terms with and live with than being transgender. As you all know, being trans is really hard and you would choose it again? You are stronger people that I am.

I live in hope that one day my choice would change, but as I feel now, for me, the less "otherness" I could have, the better.

I'm not surprised. I am bisexual so either or for me. That is about what turns me on, that is all about sex and sexual desires. Same with homosexuality, its about sex and what turns a person on. Being trans is more about gender expression and I'll go one step further and say true self expression and way less about sexual desires. Even if I wasn't trans, I would still probably be bi.

[Allyda]

I'm not homosexual, but I'm just saying why couldn't you be both? Transgendered is not a set in sexual orientaion. Technically "Transexual" is the orientation and transgendered is a whole other thing, but I wish not to digress. To late though. But anyways, you can be transgendered and still heterosexual, bisexual, asexual, metrosexual, pansexual, so why not homosexual?

I'm lesbian, does that count? Anyway I chose transgender due to the availability, or lack thereof of choices. Like the Princess I'd prefer to be a cis lesbian.

Allie

[Emily1996]

I think it's harder to be trans as you can't hide your transition forever. I'd rather be a cis lesbian since I like girls anyways

[Jen72]

As it sits now would probably considered gay but.  Still male at the moment body wise yet feeling I may be more girl in the mind aspect. 

To be honest have never even been on a date let alone sex, wanted to just didn't happen and shy/introvert which doesn't help.  I have had a girl kiss me and say hmm you special not sure what that meant at the time now hmm.

Attracted to the female personality and body yet attracted to a certain male part.  I guess that could make me a hetrosexual transwoman eventually or just plain screwed up.  Yet I have seen others similar so maybe not so screwed up after all.  I had my sister ask me if I was gay and stood there for a few seconds and thought hmm actually no if I am female and like guys that is not gay so I honestly answered no.  Eh I just don't know at the moment:)

[Saint Frankenstein]

I'd rather just be gay. Much easier than being trans because at least I wouldn't be at war with my traitorous body and have to deal with all the crap from society that goes along with it.

[Felix]

It's just a thought exercise so I don't feel like the limited options are offensive.

If I could be a gay cismale or a straight transman, I think either path would be easier for me personally than what I'm navigating now. I'm uneasy when I try to imagine living as a straight cisman or gay ciswoman, but I'm sure if I had been born one of those it would feel normal. The idea of being a straight ciswoman is kind of a trigger for me.

[Yarngeek]

I try not to post in memes, but this really reminded me of that commercial from a while back.