That *sounds* like it could be normal, but I'm not as familiar with the technique so all I can say is that losing a stitch early led to similar results on me - slight oozing, rawness and redness and tenderness, and gradually healing over. I'd recommend VERY gently separating any tissue you're afraid will heal "fused" to something it's not supposed to, but otherwise using antibiotic ointment and leaving it alone.
(And I hope the surgeon gets back to you, as he's the expert!)