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Non-binary feelings

Started by Cin, September 06, 2014, 10:45:07 AM

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Taka

if you want switching, i do that.
i'm male on all online forums, female out there in society.
but that's just my presentation, one that i try my best to keep up, but also fail at from time to time.
the man will be doubted, just the same as the woman.
though the woman is probably mostly doubted with regards to her sexuality, that's what people most easily start thinking of in more conservative societies.
the man is very openly bisexual with a preference for women. though often misunderstood anyway.

this is part of what keeps my balance. if i didn't have my male persona, i would really have no place for the man inside to exist properly, just the way that he is, completely uncensored.
another part is this place here, where i don't have to hide the other side, and can be all at the same time, or the inbetween, without being doubted all the time.

i switch, but have gotten better at allowing this to show, slightly, at all times. being a little queer isn't too bad.
and at home, i'm just whichever me that i am, without trying to hide.
not out to anyone, but that doesn't really matter. they'd have to be blind to not see that there's something extra about me.
it's their choice to close their eyes, and refuse to see that i am me for a reason.
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helen2010

I don't think so much in terms of male and female as I think that the whole gender thing is far more than a choice between 2 binary opposites or alternatives.  Frankly most things are inappropriately ascribed gender and I can no longer relate to this.  I feel that I should and can be able to choose the behavior and feeling which best suits me and the situation.  Reflective, sensitive, nurturing, protective, assertive, reserved, emotional, phlegmatic are all ok and each are accessible and appropriately employed provided that I am fully present.

Hope this makes some sense.

Safe travels

Aisla
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