congrats Aina , proud of you . I yet to come out to my parents , which will happen in this coming month. not sure what to expect but dam sure i want this heavy weight on chest to be gone and forever.
Came out to my younger brother who clearly had no idea what i was talking about, he is not being supportive or showing interest in knowing what exactly am going through. I only came out to him because he is my roommate and that being at the same place with a person transitioning he will sure see changes and things that are not confirming to his the society norms, so it had to happen
Mom and Dad will visit us next week, they will be here for a month. I am not planing to say anything the first three weeks ( tho I've had enough of hiding and lying) and live as me with out the feminine side of me( not sure how am gonna do that tho), then on the third week i will come out. I know that the first reaction is false most of the time, so i will ask them not to react and not to say anything the same day and i hope it works for them to understand what it is and they come back with questions. I am planing to have a card printed which i will give it to both my parents after coming out to them, in the cards just simple facts of GI and other facts like how much i love them
wish me luck , i really would love it if my parent are there when i am happy being the true me but at the same time i won't be mad at them if they don't
