I've shared with co workers that they should have a look. One point that was discussed is that it seems she is seen as too 'butch' and not even trying to be feminine. I was annoyed and bothered by the observation. I'm not incredibly feminine myself, but Im a woman. Who's to say what defines a woman?
I got into a huge argument about men and women just being different. Women can't be effective combatants in war nor good NFL players.
In hand-to-hand combat only a very very rare kind of 'woman' would be effective. I had no good argument about the hormonal/physical/genetic differences.
Please help me shut down this rationale.