Quote from: Alice Rogers on September 27, 2014, 05:29:57 PM
Since this seems to have changed into a thread about telling partners well in advance I should clarify my stance, I didn't mean I would purposefully keep a guy in the dark I was simply stating my incredulity that there is actually a law that could be enforced about it.
As far as a bit of petting goes in a club that is a situation I hope I never find myself in, the temptation to enjoy the moment puts you in a lot of potential danger. That's why I don't go out and get drunk unless I know my surroundings VERY well.
Us girls have to be a bit more level headed than most but to put another slant on it even a cis-girl might have been in the ->-bleeped-<- in this situation!
I kind of find that amazing myself in that there is a law regarding it. I doubt that any law would be enforce but it may be an excuse of prosecution to dismiss the case if something violent takes place which sux. Or a way for defense to make us seem like the bad girl in the situation to get their client off. But really not much different than cisgirls being made into the vixen that led the poor guy to rape her or the ciswoman that nagged so much to have been beaten.
Just another excuse for the female to be problem instead of the victim.
That is the main reason I say right off the bat or hint or turn down again and again until I can't help it and then disclose. If they keep on coming on again and again usually they wont care and I haven't had that many regrets the morning other than my own.
But then again sometimes it has been a
WOW moment when I see how cute the guy is. Especially if he cooks breakfast and then wakes me up in the morning with no regrets from him.
