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Started by Rotika, September 26, 2014, 06:43:03 PM

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Rotika

   I would love to open this introduction with saying hello my name is ***** but currently I do not have a name. I grew up very confused about myself in the backwoods (USA) of the middle of nowhere. People like myself were never accepted. Ever. So I've pretty much been a fake version of myself for the past 20+ years. Until about 3 weeks ago, I thought I'd never tell another living soul. I decided to tell my wife. She's been the most understanding person in my life about anything. We've always been very close. She's my best friend and I'm hers. I'm 27. I'm transexxual/vestite. In my head I've been a girl since I can remember. I'm still attracted to women. But also some men. But I've always been every girl's favorite person to take shopping and such.. lol.
   Since I'm so new to the idea of coming out, unfortunately I do not know a lot of things about myself. Such as my expectations or goals. Currently I'm researching HRT and how far I will take this rollercoaster ride. So far I love it. The wife and I have been having "girl time" to help me become more comfortable. I think maybe she's just happy I like to do her makeup haha.. But really.. when I'm all dressed up and I look in the mirror. I feel more "me" than I ever have before. My only regret in any of this is that I couldn't come out sooner. I look forward to getting to know everyone I can on here. Thanks for having me :)
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Abby Claire

Congrats coming out and good luck moving forward! I hope you discover where you want to go in life and it all works out.  :)
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SoroyaAR

Hello and welcome! :)  It's awesome that your wife has been so understanding, that's great!
                      Don't be afraid to be who you are.
Trust yourself. Think for yourself. Act for yourself. Speak for yourself.
                  Be yourself. Imitation is suicide.
~ Sara
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V M

The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Mark3

Hello and welcome.
It sounds wonderful to have such an accepting wife.
Its very nice to meet you, hope you will find lots of answers here.
Take care.
Mark
"The soul is beyond male and female as it is beyond life and death."
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Alice Rogers

Welcome to the best support network I have ever found!

xx
"I would rather be ashes than dust!
I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry-rot.
I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet.
The function of man is to live, not to exist.
I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them.
I shall use my time." Jack London
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Rotika

Quote from: V M on September 27, 2014, 06:20:14 PM
Hi   :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

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V M

There was quite a bit to take it, but I read through all the rules and regulations. If I forget a few details I apologize in advance but I'll do my best :D
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