Quote from: Marcellow on September 29, 2014, 10:30:04 AM
suzi and this awful person have a point, people. You can't exactly complain how things are when you don't even participate in the fight.
one can
absolutely complain how things are, regardless of how much one is able to participate in the fight to end one's own oppression. like, what the hell, man? in barney frank's universe, we are not only accountable for defending ourselves from the awful, abusive, dehumanizing behaviour of others, but doing so while the material conditions are stacked overwhelmingly against us, and in addition to that if we don't fill his coffers to his satisfaction, then well, we just aren't contributing to the CAUSE enough.
it's not a realistic expectation from anyone. it's
especially not a realistic expectation to ask me, or any trans people, to support politicians and organizations who have dozens of times decided that i don't deserve human rights. it is not my problem or my fault if someone offers to put my basic human decency up for auction. i mean, if that's the way i'm going to be treated by someone who claims to be on my side—when i'm held responsible for the hatred of others, when an "ally" has decided that not enough of my blood or the blood of my sisters has been spilled for the cause—i'm left wondering why i'm even supposed to consider him a friendly face at all.
barney frank has said in an interview with
times magazine that he's never felt like part of any majority. but the truth is, as an upper-middle-class white man, he has an immense amount of insulation and safety that many trans people, especially women of colour, simply do not have. it is
very easy for him to be out. for a lot of trans people, it's not a question of having a "comfort zone"—it's a question of avoiding abuse, assault, violence, and dehumanizing treatment.
if he wants me to think of him as anything more than a scumbag who has made politically convenient votes that have limited my rights, then it is on him—not me—to prove that he is willing to take a stand for, you know, human rights?