I am not married and nor do I have a girlfriend and its just me but I love to dress at home since that is really the only place that I do play and I love dressing up in panties or a nightie and just laying in bed rubbing my body all over, just shaved my legs last night so I love putting on a pair of tights and just feeling the fabric on my hairless legs, its amazing.
As for toys I have quite a few dildos that I love to play with and use, love to put a plug in and some panties and go to sleep like that, so nice and amazing.