SarahR, your voice is AMAZING!!!!! SarahJ, I'm 48 years old and didn't finally come out to myself until November of last year. I have been living full time since the end of December and have been trying to get as much done as fast as I can since then (trying to make up for lost time, lol). I am now 40 days post-op and you can hear my recordings on the thread "Really scared." If you have any questions you can ask here, or PM me. Warmest wishes.