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Informed consent, first appointment?

Started by FTMax, October 30, 2014, 07:45:26 PM

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FTMax

I found out about a week ago that a local clinic here follows informed consent, so I stopped in today and made an intake appointment with a doctor to hopefully get started on testosterone two weeks from now. Anybody who has gone the informed consent route in the past, what was your first appointment with the doctor like?

The appointment setter could only tell me that it would last somewhere from 45-60 minutes, but a friend who went to the same place a few years ago has said that they'll do all my paperwork and bloodwork that day.

I'm super nervous around doctors anyway, and I throw up whenever I get blood drawn, so either way I'm sure it'll be great :/
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Eyie

I can't speak for where ever you are going but I just went to my first appointment a little over a week ago and it was like the best experience I ever had and I hate doctors too lol. Everyone I met was literally like the nicest person i ever met in my life lol so hopefully you'll feel comfortable fast. ;) As far as what goes on for me it was exactly like your friend described. Paperwork, blood taken and just a general first meeting with your doctor. All in all I wouldn't be nervous at all and I hope you come out feeling as great as I did. Good luck and keep us posted!
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Wolfy

What's the informed consent route?? I don't think I've heard of this.

What I did, is that there's a clinic up in NYC my friend told me about. I had set up an appointment for testosterone consultation. When I went there, he talked to me about what I need to start, I needed my mother, and a letter from my therapist etc. We went over some stuff with testosterone and he asked me about my past and what I hope for the future. I then went and got bloodwork done the same day and he sent me home with the consent paperwork for my mother to look over. It talked about everything that T does, and I mean everything. My next appointment my mom signed the paperwork and he talked about everything on the consent sheet and the effects of T and opened up questions. After that he went over my test results, and then I got my prescription and I went home. My next appointment is when I got my shot.

The lady that drew my blood was very good. I didn't feel it one bit. I do hope it goes the same for you. It shouldn't be that bad! Hopefully you wont feel it. Just drink a lot of water so it's over with quickly. If you're not hydrated it'll hurt and the blood wont come out as fast.
I'm also nervous with my doctor. He seems so intimidating. Apparently I intimidate him as well! My friend goes to the same place and we talk about eachother with the dr at times lol. So don't feel nervous! It'll be fine.

If you're nervous when they check your vitals your blood pressure might sky rocket so try to calm down. That's what happened with my blood pressure. She did it again and I was fine, though. Good luck!
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FTMax

Quote from: Wolfy on October 30, 2014, 10:03:28 PM
What's the informed consent route?? I don't think I've heard of this.

https://www.susans.org/wiki/Informed_consent

Most doctors and all surgeons that I can think of are following the WPATH standards, wherein you have to have been speaking with a therapist for a certain amount of time before they will even humor the idea of talking to you about HRT. It's older, it's established, but at its base it's a series of recommendations that each doctor can make their decisions about. That's why you get some surgeons who want you to have a year of RLE before they'll set a date for surgery, and others who will do it as long as you have a letter from a therapist.

Informed consent is patient driven. The obligation of the doctor is to inform you of all the risks, what hormones can/will/can't do for you, etc. And then you acknowledge all of those things and consent to begin HRT. It's a much faster process with fewer barriers.

As far as I know, there aren't any surgeons that follow the informed consent model. So you'd still need to see a therapist anyway to get a surgery referral. But if you find a clinic that follows informed consent, you could very easily do therapy and start HRT simultaneously. I didn't know that this particular clinic followed informed consent, so I get to substantially shorten my transition timeline. I'm super stoked.

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