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Transgender sex guide question

Started by Soon2bShannon, October 24, 2014, 02:56:29 AM

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Soon2bShannon

So I found this PDF doing my research on transition. http://www.the519.org/My%20Files/Trans%20Resources/Sex%20Work/1510_519_transwomen.pdf . I read the whole thing, and in one part it says large anal insertions may lead to prolapse of the neovagina! I've never heard of this, and could only find 1 case of a prolapse but it wasn't really caused by this it seems. Does SRS radically change how you have to look at anal play? I'm sorry for being so blunt, but well.... I had no intentions of cutting a part of my sex life that's working fine out.... this has me a bit concerned.
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suzifrommd

My surgeon claims that she's never had a patient prolapse as long as they followed the dilation schedule. I'm skeptical of this.
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Vicky

All I have heard about with anal sex, is that you do not resume it until your surgeon or an Gynecologist clears you for having penetrative sex in your new vagina.  The times on that are 6 weeks to six months or more.  A danger of doing it prematurely is the creation of a fistula between the vagina and the anus, that is a real danger.  Maybe that is what the article was really thinking about. If you make it more than 18 months the bulk of the healing from all but the fussiest surgeons will be over, and you did buy the full set of equipment.  Check with your surgeon (even before hand) on when it could be resumed after surgery.
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Jenna Marie

It also says to check with your surgeon, and I'd do so - and then take their word as gospel. Some techniques have a higher risk of prolapse than others, and some people's anatomy is more at risk than others'. I'd personally say the guide is being extra cautious, and that while this is technically possible, it's not a significant concern for anyone who did consult their surgeon.

(Suzi, I wonder if that's b/c Rumer is still fairly new, with a relatively small number of patients? I'd guess the chances of *all* complications occurring goes up as the total pool of patients does, just as a statistical thing. Of course, the other way it could be true is that she automatically assumes anyone with a prolapse didn't follow the dilation rules...)
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