Burial wishes?

[Jessie_Heart]

cremate me and I don't care what is done with the ashes as long as my family doesn't know what happened to them so they have no real place to stand to remember my death. I have done alot in my life to try to make a positive impact on others lives if i am remembered I want my life to be what is remembered not my death. if I cannot be remembered as a positive part of someones life and remembered for things about me that made them happy I sure don't want to be remembered by my death that made them sad! but first please take any parts that would help others before burning me if I am dead thenI don't need them!

[RebeccaFog]

    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped

I meant to say 'cremated'.  but that's a funny response.  Instead of waiting to die, I'm getting neglected and ridiculed while I'm alive so my ceremony will be shorter.

[Ell]

    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped

I meant to say 'cremated'.  but that's a funny response.  Instead of waiting to die, I'm getting neglected and ridiculed while I'm alive so my ceremony will be shorter.

funny?! that was my childhood, youth, and adulthood i was talking about! but to stay on topic, who cares how you finish off the remains of such a life...

[Jeannette]

Cremate me and light a candlle in my honour every night.

[RebeccaFog]

    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped

I meant to say 'cremated'.  but that's a funny response.  Instead of waiting to die, I'm getting neglected and ridiculed while I'm alive so my ceremony will be shorter.

funny?! that was my childhood, youth, and adulthood i was talking about! but to stay on topic, who cares how you finish off the remains of such a life...

I'm sorry.  I really thought you were talking about after you die.  I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.

[Ell]

I'm sorry.  I really thought you were talking about after you die.  I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.

you didn't hurt my feelings, Rebecca. i sense there may be really valuable lessons running all through my experiences, if i could just somehow get at the meaning.

-ell

[Jessie_Heart]

you didn't hurt my feelings, Rebecca. i sense there may be really valuable lessons running all through my experiences, if i could just somehow get at the meaning.

-ell

I also had a somewhat hard childhood and I know that it has for sure made me a better person and a better parent I would never want to cause anyone the pain I indured so I make sure to treat people better than I was treated and I do my best to be the kind of parent that I always wished I had. so even though it was hard to go through it is good that I did because I know how it feels to be hurt and alone and if I can keep someone from feeling that way I am going to.

[RebeccaFog]

you didn't hurt my feelings, Rebecca. i sense there may be really valuable lessons running all through my experiences, if i could just somehow get at the meaning.

-ell

I also had a somewhat hard childhood and I know that it has for sure made me a better person and a better parent I would never want to cause anyone the pain I indured so I make sure to treat people better than I was treated and I do my best to be the kind of parent that I always wished I had. so even though it was hard to go through it is good that I did because I know how it feels to be hurt and alone and if I can keep someone from feeling that way I am going to.

   Also, you know you have survived.  So you know you will continue to survive.
   
   Thanks for calling be Rebecca, Ell.  I bet that confuses some people, but it reminds me of where my heart is at.

[Suzy]

If there is anything usable on me, I'd like for someone else to benefit.  From there on out, it's just a matter of how quickly things decompose.  I know, however, that some need to see a body to bring closure and to grieve.  So if there are strong feelings in that respect, I would be OK with it.

Kristi

[King Malachite]

Freeze me.  If by some chance I could be resurrected in the future then I would like to have all as much of me in once piece as possible.  Just don't cremate me.