Should I talk to him?

[Auroramarianna]

Hi girls,

I hope I can better explain what happened. So... In the summer of 2013 I met a guy who said I had this great personality and started trying talk to me and get my attention. He told me he had this disease that made him skinny. I honestly felt a bit creeped out back then but now I just think it's sweet.

I saw him two times after, in a party, where he appeared to be drunk, so I just greeted him but didn't really talk and wasted the opportunity. I saw him again on the train, he wasn't seeing me until he's stopped by the man who checks the tickets, he was going the opposite direction but suddenly he just sits some seats in front of me.

On the night of 31 October of Halloween, I went to a night out with my brother and peeps from school. I see the guy with friends but I didn't think he had seen me. I was dancing on the top of the balcony with others!! Lol. But it just got too croweded so I went to the bar for a drink. My brother didn't see me go so I just waved at him really high so he could see me. Suddenly, I see someone coming my direction from behind, they just said hi and then just stood there in front of me waiting for my reaction. It was him. I was so surprised, I didn't know what to say, so I just lifted my hand (fail). We just stared at each other, him smiling at him and then giving me a handshake and me shocked and with a probably dumb face. He noticed as he asked "are you ok?" whispering to my ear. Lol.

I know he may have just been friendly but I wonder. and now I want to find out if he could be a good friend. I think he's different. Although I barely know him, and it may be risky, but if we don't ever take the risk, who would we know? So do you think I should talk to him or will I come off as creepy and desperate? Have you girls ever tried to get to know an acquaintance you donn't see that much? I'm kind of shyy

(I'm not presenting female yet, but I'm femme already physically espec my voice, and I hope I will be able to feminize myself further)

thank you for any response,
xoxoxo

[Shantel]

Hi hon!
      Having read this I have to say that something struck me rather hard. It was the memory of a rather darling little MtF woman who passed away several years ago with AIDS. It was discovered when they did the pre-op blood work, she was never allowed to have SRS as a result. She related to me what had brought it on, she had met a nice fellow who was rather skinny but just super sweet to her. They had some drinks one evening and she accepted an invitation to go hot tubbing with him, it was there that they engaged in unprotected anal sex, the rest is history. I really hate to throw cold water on anyone's party, but thought I'd share this and ask you to be very careful because it's so easy to get carried away in the moment only to regret it later. xox ~Shan~

[Auroramarianna]

Woooow, oh my god, I understand your concern. But I'm not having sex with anyone right now. And if I ever do, I will protect myself. But I'm not really talking about sex or romance here, just maybe a possible a connection. I hope. I need my heart to be broken, it's never been. We all need experienceee.

[Shantel]

Woooow, oh my god, I understand your concern. But I'm not having sex with anyone right now. And if I ever do, I will protect myself. But I'm not really talking about sex or romance here, just maybe a possible a connection. I hope. I need my heart to be broken, it's never been. We all need experienceee.

I dunno about that, perhaps a real caring sweetheart someday soon would be much better!

[Auroramarianna]

Omg I want to talk to him soooo much. I just want to exploree........ But he doesn't get online!!

Do you girls think I should still talk to him? It's been some days >.<

[gabimoneratt]

As long as you know that you might be getting into something bad or that he might just be friendly,  go ahead. But imagining by the way you're acting, you're too hung up on it, so your expectations are high, great recipe for failure. Been there, done that  just let things happen... And make sure you know what disease he has lol

[Auroramarianna]

As long as you know that you might be getting into something bad or that he might just be friendly,  go ahead. But imagining by the way you're acting, you're too hung up on it, so your expectations are high, great recipe for failure. Been there, done that  just let things happen... And make sure you know what disease he has lol

Yeah, I know. *-* I know it may just be friendly, I wanna knooow. And about the disease! OMG Totally.... I better know.

I am actually expecting a really awkward FB conversation, so if it becomes better than that, I will be happy.

xx

[liz]

It's funny how these firsts awkwards talks may change our whole life. He might become a good friend of you that's how I made my best friend. Just don't forget not to jump straight in a relation without enought cards in hands. A good friendship however is not a bad thing.

[gabimoneratt]

You seem to be just like me, super curious hahaha
Yep, definitely give a chance to the friendship though. He seems to be a nice guy and, who knows, he could become a best friend and even a strong supporter when you go FT(if you plan on doing so)...
Good luck and let us know how it goes

[Auroramarianna]

So I talked to him on FB.

I began by saying hi and then apologizing for my reaction when he approached me and excused myself with being just a little drink. He laughed, said it was okay and asked of I had get some girl, but I sm so effeminate, nobody believes I  like girls... I said I didn't as I was in my group and then he asked how my life was going. He had to go though so he just thanked, said to me I should behave well and a hug.

Lol what do I do? Should I pursue him?? Or just let it go.

[amber roskamp]

So I talked to him on FB.

I began by saying hi and then apologizing for my reaction when he approached me and excused myself with being just a little drink. He laughed, said it was okay and asked of I had get some girl, but I sm so effeminate, nobody believes I  like girls... I said I didn't as I was in my group and then he asked how my life was going. He had to go though so he just thanked, said to me I should behave well and a hug.

Lol what do I do? Should I pursue him?? Or just let it go.

If you want to pursue it, pursue it. It sounds like you like him. might as well give it a shot!

Take it slow and be careful though!