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Started by Brenda E, November 05, 2014, 04:45:34 PM

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Brenda E

So I'm still not out at work.  What's the best way to hide my rapidly-growing boobs?

Binders?  Compression tops?  Bras?  Really no idea what's available or what works, but I can't be the first transgirl to run into this problem.

(And a sub-question: does binding growing tits stunt their development or harm them in any way?)
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Jill F

I have never hidden them, but a sports bra and baggy shirt usually does the trick for the ladies here.

I have heard that a binder isn't good for growing breast tissue.
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Leila

Unless you work with a bunch of rude morons that like to state the blindingly obvious to everyone, then you may find in most polite company, no one will say a thing. I am not out to anyone at work and I've been on HRT for over one year. There have been other physical changes apart from chest growth.

I've been wearing a bra every day to work since January this year and honestly no-one has said a word to me about my chest. For the record I have 34C breasts.

I work in an air conditioned office so I wear regular office attire for a male. I do limit their impact by wearing a stretchy tee-shirt over my bra, over which I wear a baggy button down shirt as well. Others have said that wearing shirts with textures and designs can distract the eyes from strap lines, but I only have plain shirts. Chunky oversized jumpers or sweaters can help too if where you are the weather is getting colder.
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Brenda E

So bagginess is generally enough to hide them?

If so, awesome.  I only need to be in the closet for about six months at work (new job - don't want to surprise anyone too early), but after that I really don't care.
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Christine Eryn

Quote from: Brenda E on November 05, 2014, 05:37:30 PM
So bagginess is generally enough to hide them?

If so, awesome.  I only need to be in the closet for about six months at work (new job - don't want to surprise anyone too early), but after that I really don't care.

Even with baggy shirts and a sports bra plus hunching over, it's hard to hide. Even in "boy mode", sometimes I would get eyes locked onto my chest every once in a while.  :icon_eek: Don't let that stop you though. It was easier years ago when I was lower doses of HRT, but now my hand is pretty much forced to go full time.
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Gothic Dandy

Binders aren't even kind to FTM boobs...I just figured this was acceptable because we don't want to keep them anyway  :P

If you're a B-cup or smaller, I agree that a sports bra and baggy shirt would probably hide them. This is the "binding" method that works for me (FTM) most days.
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Rachel

I wear loose dress shirts with a tie and an undershirt. I stopped wearing a sports bra at work ( just at the gym). I get some stairs like a meeting Tuesday where a guy talked to my boobs several times. I am on injections and 7 or so days of the cycle my nipples are erect a lot and I can see them through my work shirt. At some point I will wear a bra but right now I do not need to. I am nowhere capturing a pencil under my boobs yet. I love my growth and this is my way to gently informing others over time.

Woman notice too and I get a lot of friendly conversation and smiles and facial expressions expressing friendship or acceptance.

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Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on November 05, 2014, 06:45:48 PMWoman notice too and I get a lot of friendly conversation and smiles and facial expressions expressing friendship or acceptance.

An interesting point.  I have always been worried about what the guys will think or say.  I wasn't considering the women, many of whom may be rather charmed by the fact that there's an extra one in the office trying to hide but failing.  I guess they'll notice long before the pervy guys do.
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Jenna Marie

Binding will definitely damage breast tissue even when it's fully developed, and is NOT a good idea while developing.

However, I had good luck (up to a point) with wearing a compression sports bra - *not* one too tight or that was smaller than my size, just one listed as "high compression" or "maximum bounce control" - under a T-shirt, with a loose shirt over that. Basically, the goal was to hide that telltale silhouette by making it look like I was just chubby or in baggy clothes.
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MyKa

Sports bra, not too tight your not trying to bind and a size larger t shirt worked for me for a while. It was kinda funny after a while my mom thought I was on steroids....no mother I'm not on the juice
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ErinS

A compression undershirt from someplace like underarmor under a t shirt and a baggy, preferably patterned shirt works great. The more irregular the pattern, the better the camouflage.
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Brenda E

Quote from: MyKa on November 05, 2014, 09:37:40 PMIt was kinda funny after a while my mom thought I was on steroids....no mother I'm not on the juice

They do look like impressive pecs when squished up, don't they?

Time to go shopping for compression shirts.
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Christine167

I wear a jacket everyday. And the required colored shirt under that and a stretchy under shirt. Yeah it's warm but I got used to it.

My only other tip is to roll your shoulders forward. It's what guys do and it minimizes boobs. When I leave work I roll my shoulders back and correct my posture.
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