Alright, so, I'm a transgender male (duh) with a history of both self harm and on-off disordered eating. Ever since my preteen years, I've had issues with both. And I'm sad to say, lately I've been relapsing pretty hard into both behaviors. The self harm has gotten a little better, or at least not cutting has, but for some reason my starving myself has kinda taken its place in a way. I'm really afraid, because what will happen that scares me so much about it is that I can feel totally FINE, but I still won't eat because I'm afraid of how I will feel after the matter, if that makes sense. Like, I'll be feeling alright about my body, go to eat half a sandwich, and then feel absolutely disgusting and want to die. The unfortunate thing is that I never know when it's gonna be okay and when I'm gonna get hit hard with self-hatred and try to force myself to throw up what little I managed to eat. Another bad thing is that sometimes I'm also prone to manic episodes, and when these happen I tend to overeat, and that makes the self-hatred SO MUCH WORSE and I end up purging hard later. I guess... something that worries me about talking about this in real life is that I'm technically a bit overweight, and every time I try and hint to people that I need help ("haha I haven't eaten all day and it's 9pm", "I'm sorry I'm not doing my best today, I haven't eaten since yesterday afternoon") they just wanna congratulate me on trying to lose weight. I dunno. I really wanna get help but nobody wants to take me seriously and I'm starting to feel really weak all the time and it's scaring me a bit. How do I tell people I need help overcoming this?