So a few months ago, there was an incident where some guy I didn't know was yelling some very nasty transphobic things at me. I was going on a walk on the walkway with my brother who is twelve. The guy was also calling me homophobic names. The guy was saying things that I don't even want to repeat.
I tried my best not give him a reaction. I ignored him, blocked him out, and had a random conversation with my brother.
To be honest, the incident made me so uncomfortable. I'm scared now to walk the walkway because I don't want to run into him again. He's bigger than me and I'm a smaller guy. I don't want to fight him. I took 6 years of self defense/karate classes, but I'm worried that he'll be stronger than me and it wouldn't be a fair fight.
I'm 20, not on T yet. I'm only 5'1 1/2" and 85 pounds. I'm also legally blind and a white cane user for independent travel.
I'm not the most masculine guy around but on that day it was very hot out, so I just threw on my nike shoes, gym shorts, and a college t-shirt.
If I ever have to deal with him again or if he threatens or harasses me again, I plan to get the police involved.
I NEVER walk alone at night time and I carry mace on me most of the time.
I live in a small conservative town in western PA.
So has anyone else had any incidents similar to mine? How did you cope or deal with it?