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2014 Accomplishments/2015 Goals

Started by Ms Grace, November 23, 2014, 12:02:58 AM

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Ms Grace

Quote from: Jill F on November 23, 2014, 04:07:21 PM
Overcome fear of flying
...
Launch band "Victoria's Other Secret" and become huge international rock star/supermodel

Does that mean you'll come tour Down Under? ;D
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Jill F

Quote from: Ms Grace on November 23, 2014, 04:11:55 PM
Does that mean you'll come tour Down Under? ;D

My wife asked me the same thing this morning.  *rimshot*

2016
SRS
Hug Koalas, Grace and Cindy.
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stephaniec

2013 started
2014 continuing
2015 more clothes
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Christine Eryn

2014:
-came out to sister
-got ears pierced
-moved to LGBT friendly neighborhood
-met with a few local FFS doctors
-joined local transgender group, met some great people who are also in the struggle
-left old career, perhaps forever; recently started new job
-went out "en femme" in public on Halloween (it's a start)
-electolysis every possible opportunity
-overcame depression/hopelessness and joblessness
remaining weeks:
-come out to parents and friends, possibly other family
-tattoos

2015:
-FFS

-legal changes
-go full time
-GRS
-boob job
-be at peace with myself
"There was a sculptor, and he found this stone, a special stone. He dragged it home and he worked on it for months, until he finally finished. When he was ready he showed it to his friends and they said he had created a great statue. And the sculptor said he hadn't created anything, the statue was always there, he just cleared away the small peices." Rambo III
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ImagineKate

2014:
Found Susan's place
Came out
Therapy
Starting HRT (I hope)
First RLE as a girl
Skin care, eyebrows, started growing out hair
Started electrolysis
Pictures now gendering female consistently
Talked to HR and coworkers
Lost a ton of weight, BMI near 25, so I'm nearly not overweight

2015:
VFS or fully trained voice
Full time
Name and doc changes
BMI <25
Electrolysis done
Hair grown to acceptable (to me) length

SRS likely won't be until 2016 or 2017 if at all.
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LivingTheDream

2014:

Started therapy
started laser (is ongoing, with no end in sight! :()
Continued letting hair get longer
Told a few people; boss, cousin, buddy, etc
Went to a few support groups
Went shopping in stores a few times
Lots of online shopping..
Went to therapy a few times all dolled up  :D
started voice therapy (another it's endless type thing :()
Was me on Halloween, all day (was great!)
TONS of letter drama
Got said letter
1st endo appt- got spiro
2nd endo appt- got  ^ bumped up and got e!
School-few semesters, had to drop this one though, too much going on atm
Made some new friends from here and irl

I think that's most of it...dam, busy year

now-end of 2015:

Have the talk with brother and others who need to know
finish laser
find my hot, sexy, feminine voice
more hrt!
Get health issues taken care of
Ear piercings
Part time---full time, hopefully before fall semester
Eyebrows done
Decent hair length and style, w/ highlights !!  ;D
find DECENT paying job (at least)

Am sure there is more..
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ImagineKate

Other goals not sure if they will be this year or next or ever

Come out to parents
Come out to friends
Work with policy makers to make birth certificate and passport gender change a reality in Trinidad and Tobago
Move to another state that supports all my rights
Find a new job and start fresh as a woman (maybe in 2016 or beyond)
Find love again :(

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Kaydee

2014

Realized why I have never felt comfortable in any social groups and came out to self
January:  Began working with a gender therapist
March: Came to fully accept myself as trans.
           Came out to my wife (ouch!)
June: Had time to dress and experiment with the new image of myself.  As a result
          Decided to start taking steps to a transition.
          Came out to family: Mother, sister and 2 brothers.   Accepted.
September:  Talked to therapist about hormones and moving forward.
Aug-Nov:  Sick.  Still moving forward, but unable to make real progress.
     Nov:  Saw endo.  Got my estrogen. Started taking it.
             Came out to 3 coworkers.

2015:
     Jan: Negotitate with wife to go full time at home.
Begin electrolysis.
Get a good wig.
Get my ears pierced (Merry Christmas to me, Merry Christmas to me...)
Come out to my adult children,
Continue to come out to coworkers.  Continue to dress more feminine at work.
Regularly attend support group meetings.
Begin going public as me.
Talk to university about coming out at work.

My ultimate goal next year: Summer (university vacation) go full time! 
Aimee





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Mariah

2014
1. Finally admitted I'm transgendered and started facing my GID.
2. got ears pierced
3. Saw a gender therapist for the first time
4. Started living full time as Mariah
5. Got acyclic nails put on at a nail salon. Certainly better than my own brittle nails.
6 Name and gender marker changes
7. Changed all other legal documents including birth Certificate.
8. Started laser hair removal
9. eyebrows done
10. Got HRT letter
10. First endo doctor's visit
11. started HRT
12. came out friends and family.
13. switched to self injections.
14. Lost 20 pounds and got down to my lowest weight of 162.5
15. Joined Susan's

2015
1. Continue laser hair removal
2.  start electro for areas that need it to finish anything laser couldn't take care of.
3. Consult for GRS
4. lose about 20 to 30 more pounds.
5. Get my voice to a point where I'm completely happy with it.
6. Hopefully get GRS letter
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask me.
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I am also spouse of a transgender person.
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Ms Grace

I find it curious that getting our ears pierced is showing up in a lot of people's lists. I suppose I should have added it to mine too, it was something I did on January 2. It's a little but big thing isn't it? A lot of cis men have pierced ears and yet when I was presenting as male I kept well away from doing that. Not sure why? Was I afraid it would reveal my inner trans woman to the world? I think I might have been. ???
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Apples Mk.II

- Be steady with hair removal. Two months of electro, one of laser.
- Have by December the savings for SRS
- Make working in my voice routine and habit
- Dress more femenine
- Complete my name and gender legal change as soon as I meet the requirements (2 years HRT or SRS) and drop my current gender neutral name
- Have my BA
-Get back in shape. What I spend monthly in pizza and beer is enough to cover the monthly gym fee.

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RuthFrances

2014

Started therapy
Came out to wife and 3 friends
Lost over 50 lbs
Started laser hair removal
Started working on mannerisms, dressing more andro in public
Started journaling my transition
Joined Susan's Place
Stayed clean and sober another year

2015

Start HRT
continue hair removal
Continue weight loss
Wardrobe
Come out to kids and more family, work?
Continue to be happy and content with life :D

theadanielle

2014 Accomplishments

Came out to my family
Changed my name legally
Had FFS
Got my first FT job as a woman
Changed all my utility, credit card accounts, IDs to new name
Got rid of 70-80% of facial hair so far!

2015 Goals

Get the rest of that nasty facial hair off me!
Come out to extended family/old friends I haven't spoken to in a long time
Get SRS
Start dating guys  :-)
Begin serious steps toward a new career!
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Jill F

Quote from: Ms Grace on November 24, 2014, 05:41:38 AM
I find it curious that getting our ears pierced is showing up in a lot of people's lists. I suppose I should have added it to mine too, it was something I did on January 2. It's a little but big thing isn't it? A lot of cis men have pierced ears and yet when I was presenting as male I kept well away from doing that. Not sure why? Was I afraid it would reveal my inner trans woman to the world? I think I might have been. ???

I had both ears done in college. (3 in left)  Maybe I was trying to tell myself something?   I'm 100% sure now that it was a manifestation of GD.
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Ms Grace

I really wanted to have earrings in uni but my father would have been dead set against it. This was 1986 and guys with pierced ears were either gay or weirdos. Since I lived at home I didn't have much option. So I crafted a nifty clip on sleeper out of a paper clip! Wore it at uni and removed it at home. Forgot to remove it one day and father goes "what's THAT in your ear?!" Sheesh. Anyway, got my ears pierced as soon as I moved out as an up you to the old man but I was already on HRT at that point and planning to transition anyway.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Balerie

•   Joined Susan's Place
•   Accepted my GID
•   Resumed therapy
•   Started training my voice
•   Focused on my weight loss (down 28 lbs so far)
•   Hope to join a trans group before the year is over.

2015
•   Start HRT
•   Join a trans support group
•   Continue with weight loss focus to drop at least 100 lbs
•   Continue to work on voice
•   Get laser or electro
•   Add more clothes to my female wardrobe
•   Get more proficient with makeup
•   Go part-time at least at home
•   Go outside the house as a female
•   Go to therapy as a female




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GorJess

2014:

Filming for documentary, where I'm featured
Legal name change
Making my name more known, available to other youth, to help them to know they aren't alone
2 years HRT
First full calendar (January-December 2014) year of living only female (started June 2013)
Presenting at workshops, diversity weeks around the country, telling my story
Named prom queen; one of the first 15 nationwide to be transitioning and claim the crown; my date and I became the first in the world to be both transitioning, and get both prom king and queen
Collaborated with university officials to ensure SRS coverage in student health plan
Met lots of new friends, presenters, etc. like Jazz, Chris, and so many more!
Call from MTV earlier this month for potential interest in filming
Moved to the point where I am 100% seen as me in the real world, to where I hear discussions of deep female insider matters that while remind me of how well I'm seen as a natal female, it is a constant reminder of what my body cannot do

...with the lone exception of the first job I got this year, working with preschool kids. This one girl tells me Jessica is a boy's name, calls me a boy, because of my voice though she just turned four, does not know better. It's not clocking, because the other kids do not think so, and everyone finds her a bit silly in that sense. My coworkers certainly don't think so given our discussions, and my neighbor, who is my boss, asked on our first day, being the oldest of three girls "What happened to the boy in your family?" She's super sharp mentally, hasn't put it together.

Last semester of classes

2015

Continuing filming, media work of various types, etc. Documentary potentially released, though I hear early 2016.
SRS in May, with trip to San Francisco and San Mateo.
Possible book plans documenting my journey; just thought of this, so who knows
Potentially first job with degree, somewhere in finance. I'll be on the hunt!
Any other ideas? I work a lot with youth, trying to get my name out there to be the teen representative, kind of like what Jazz does, since that's my story. The idea here is to help others in time of need, which is an issue, that while improving, still has to cover 25 more miles left of the marathon. Some of what I know and plan, I can't say, but keep an eye out for me! ;)
You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. -Woodrow Wilson





With Dr. Marci Bowers in San Mateo
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katrinaw

2014 - At last coming out to a close friend...
2015 - Gender Counselling (help me get through the hard bits); Complete close circle of support group; minimal face work needed to go full time; secure and keep work (get before, keep after); Tell my family in 2014 (wish and hope I can do it).... clean up the mess (go back to counselling and my support group) ongoing  :'(

These are my aspirations for next year

Love Katy
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
Journey recommenced Sept 2015  :eusa_clap:... planning FT 2016  :eusa_pray:

Randomly changing 'Katy PIC's'

Live life, embrace life and love life xxx
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Brenda E

#38
Pretty much the same as everyone else:

2014 (in no particular order)

- Came out to spouse, parents, kids, close family.
- Began therapy (best decision ever)
- Started hormones
- Ears pierced
- Growing hair
- Came out to supervisor
- Began beard removal

2015

- Come out fully at work
- Come out to remaining family
- Start being me full-time
- End beard removal.  Like, this is my #1 goal.

So far, it's been a bittersweet year.  2015 will be the same, I'm sure.
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m1anderson

2014:


  • Joined Susan's Place
  • Accepted my GID
  • Began Therapy 3.0
  • Began Focusing on Proper Weight Loss
  • Had First Endo Appointment
  • Met New Awesome TG Women

2015:


  • Come Out to Spouse and Immediate Family
  • Begin HRT
  • Eventually Shave Off Defining Mustache
  • Begin Electrolysis (Yikes!)
  • Find a Local Support Group
  • Downgrade My Professional Life to Something I Can Love
  • Pay Something Seriously Forward


Audaces Fortuna Luvat ... Fortune Favors the Bold  ;D
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