The nerve of my ex!!

[MelissaAnn]

My ex is being a real pain in my a__! She hasn't allowed me to come out to people on my own terms or way. The last straw is she told my youngest son about me. It's not her place to do so. I feel betrayed all over again by her. over the past couple of months in an effort to cause me pain and trying to get me to stop transitioning she told  my family. On the day I was coming out to my oldest son she told him before I could explain things.

I knew going into this that I stood a good chance of losing my boys over this and I did prepare myself for that possibility so I'm not devastated by these turns of events. I just wanted them to here from me and let them know why I had to do this. So neither one of my boys are talking to me right now. Our lives are hard enough!!! Why do people think it's okay to betray you even more? Any way this is my rant for the day... Sorry!

Much Love,

Melissa Ann

[DeanJulian]

Wow, how horrible of her! I hope things at least get better soon 

[Mariah]

Hugs. As much I'm sure she already knows and doesn't give whatever I would still let her know how you feel. Secondly, as much as I dislike this idea it would put an end to her doing it. It's true it won't be exactly the way you wanted to do it, but it will stop her in her tracks and that is tell everyone. Don't leave any stone unturned. This way you still control the dialog and not her. It also takes virtually all the reward and attention she is gaining right now away from her. I hope it doesn't come to that for you, but it would definitly give her the shock and awww she is trying to do to you. You still have time to change the dialog with them too. I wouldn't give up before trying to do that. Why do they think it's ok because they think they have something to gain from it. As far they can see they don't see any negatives for them only positives. I'm sorry she is vindictive by doing something like that. Good Luck and Hugs.
Mariah

My ex is being a real pain in my a__! She hasn't allowed me to come out to people on my own terms or way. The last straw is she told my youngest son about me. It's not her place to do so. I feel betrayed all over again by her. over the past couple of months in an effort to cause me pain and trying to get me to stop transitioning she told  my family. On the day I was coming out to my oldest son she told him before I could explain things.

I knew going into this that I stood a good chance of losing my boys over this and I did prepare myself for that possibility so I'm not devastated by these turns of events. I just wanted them to here from me and let them know why I had to do this. So neither one of my boys are talking to me right now. Our lives are hard enough!!! Why do people think it's okay to betray you even more? Any way this is my rant for the day... Sorry!

Much Love,

Melissa Ann

[MelissaAnn]

Thank you Mariah!!! My youngest son was the last one to come out to...! So the good news is I'm finally free!!!

Love,

Melissa Ann

[Mariah]

Your welcome Melissa, still she robbed you of that opportunity and that is start heart breaking that she did. I'm glad your finally free though. Most of those I haven't told are so old and I never see them that I'm not worried about them, but still I would always want to be the one to tell them if it needs to happen. Some of my family were told by someone else about my transitioning before I was ready to tell them lucky I was able to control the dialog eventually and I hope you have that chance with your son. Hugs.
Mariah.

Thank you Mariah!!! My youngest son was the last one to come out to...! So the good news is I'm finally free!!!

Love,

Melissa Ann