Hi!
I have quite strange topic and I would like to ask for your experience in this area
Firstly I have to say that I plan to move to the States or the UK (for studying) in a couple of months. The problem is that I will need a financial help from my parents to start my studies - which I will have for sure from them (it's really cool tho).
But the problem is with my transition which I will start soon. Unfortunately my parents had not accepted it well when I came out (they have just saying that it is not impossible and I should stop to joke, blah blah blah), so right now they don't know anything and they don't know anything that I have a prescription and my plans to transition.
To be honest - I don't know what to do right now regarding to tell my parents.
If I say it right now - my parents would deny financial help and maybe even urge me to leave my home. So I will not be able to study and it will be really bad.
But if I don't say anything to my parents till moving to the uni and I will say about it after moving out - I will feel bad and I will feel that I have stolen money :/ but in the other hand I will have more opportunities after graduation and I will be independent from them.
For sure I want to transition. And for sure I would like to move out to start studying in another country.
But to be honest I would not like to have any war with my family.
Do you guys have ever had similar situation? How to manage the best possible way to solve this problem? I hope that maybe in future they would accept that fact, but maybe there is a solution to speed it up?
Thank you for your help in advance!
