Hope for those of us married

[gennee]

Thank you for sharing a wonderful and positive story, Cristy. I'm very happy that everything has worked out so well. My wife was shocked  when I told her that I wear women's clothing. It took her time to process all this. I was patient and never forced it on her. If she had questions I answered them. We had been married twenty five years when all this happened.

I always felt different all my life but never knew why. I had never put on any feminine article in my life. In 2005, I got this crazy urge to try on my wife's skirt. I tried to dismiss it but eventfully gave in. Needless to say, that this act set the wheel in motion that would forever change my life. Now over nine years later, my spouse is accepting. So is my son and his GF. My granddaughter loves me just the same. It was given some nightgowns and a sweater for Christmas from them. I was so happy. My spouse and I have be married for 34 years now and are happy as ever.

[Cristyjade30]

Yeah I undersand all of you, my wife said all those things to, I didn't marry a woman, and asked if i liked men, she still has a little trouble but she has been asking about clothes and stuff for me, what I like and stuff, I never really cross dressed a lot, so is a little learning curve. Being 30 there all of things I like, so we're doing it together and she seems happy be of it.. I've always been reclusive about emotions and things I like so she is starting to like things about Christine... My music, my style, and how much more amiable and easy I am. I know that the truth is hard, but they have I hear it... Hey I'm a chick.... So simple but unless your well studied in transgender medical research, it's like trying to explain quantum physics to a 3 year old... It takes time, in my case 2 years before she learned enough to be okay with transition... So just take the time your wife or husband needs to digest it...