Update!!
I went to the hospital yesterday for incheck, they took some blood samples, blood pressure etc.
I met the nurse, who explain to me the process, what I needed to do brfore (shower etc), and different stages of the 7-10 days your are in the hospital such as when the packing is removed, when you start dilate and so on. She also showed me the dilators.
I also met the assistent surgeon. He asked me if I hade some questions.
I was very straight forward, (almost aggressiv lol) and asked what my guarentees are. What happen if something goes wrong? Are you going to help me? What are you WILLING to help me with if something goes wrong?
I told him about one example, a girl who got her Op with Gunnar Krantz. At first, she had 14 cm depth, but the swelling and blood was so bad she coulden't dilate properly. Gunnar krantz told her everything was fine, she looked normal and ehen the swelling (and pain) was better, she should archive original depth.
She ended upp with 6 cm depth, and he would do NOTHING to help her, told her 6 cm was fine, and that he wouldn't open her up if she didnt was completely closed up.
I told him to be honest, becouse otherwise, I get my srs somewere else, its not a problem. I just want the truth about what are going to happen with me if something goes wrong. I didnt threten him, but I also told him I'm not going to be quit about how they treat me afterwords.
He was stumbled and very suprised. He was death-serius when he told me that they are there to help ME, that this op is done for me, and the priorerty is to make me happy. That I under no circumstances hesitate to ask for help, how small or major problem it may be. The one and only reason why they wouldnt help me after was if they tought it would be to dangerous for my health and body.
He was so sweet and took my concerns very seriosly. And he really gave me an honest impression.