Quote from: Eveline on February 25, 2015, 04:00:10 PM
chinee, assuming you do plan to tell him, remember your personal safety. Sometimes guys don't react well to the news...
Agreed. So, when/if you decide to tell him, don't do it when you two are alone. I would tell him over the phone because like Eveline said, you don't know what his reaction might be. He could be sweet to you now but after he finds out, he may turn into a hostile person. That's why I don't agree with intimacy prior to disclosing because look, it sounds like you fell for this guy so if/when you tell him and he possibly tells you that you are not his cup of tea, you will feel VERY hurt. But you never know, maybe he will accept you.
If I were you, I would disclose asap before things get any more serious than they already are. And I truly wish you the best of outcome.