The official "You look fabulous, darling!" 6.0

[K Style Addiction]

Merry Christmas

You look really pretty !

[V M]

I have posted a video of my stand-comedy performance two nights ago in Southern Florida. Keep in mind the average age in Collier County is 68. Yes, 68. So at 51 years old - I am young. The crowd had a few young people but, when I looked at the crowd, the average age of the crowd was pretty close to the average age of the area. 

So, my point, this is a very conservative part of, not just the USA but also, Florida. I did alter my routine a little because of that... I can be much darker. But, I think we have to admit, the reception I receive is warm.

I appreciate candid feedback. I know that my voice is masculine and I am trying to decide how (or if) to address it. Also, I know some of my movements are still very strong. But, I think those never give me away anymore. When I get clocked - it is my voice . I have a worn a tank dress about 2 previous times in my life. Wearing this on stage was to directly address my insecurity with my shoulders and arms. (As if just being on stage is not scary enough... it is.)

Next, I want to write again. There are pockets of the world that are ready to accept women that were mistakenly categorized men at birth... as attractive interesting human beings. We do not have hide like we did 20 (or even 10 years ago.)

Finally, about the comedy itself. I wrote it, of course. If anyone one finds it offensive to transgender people please lets have a discussion. In addition to making people laugh, my goal is to help others see us more like the wonderful, fun people, we are (and... if you have any comic fodder, or tips, please share!)

Lastly, yes, a guy was hitting on me before the show. And yes, in those situations I do reveal that I am transgender. His eyes got big, he took a long pause, he took a deep breath and he kept taking to me. He was very polite. And no, he did not whisper to himself like I said in the last joke! I had that joke written two weeks ago!

Here is the link:

 

If you think it is worth sharing, feel free to share it. I hid for nearly 50 years. That time is over.

Kind Regards, Danielle

I think your voice is fine and I rather enjoyed the show 

Hugs

[rosinstraya]

Great stuff Danielle! Wonder if they got all the "dark" humour? You do indeed kick a significant amount of derrière with your show, as I never said in England.

Hats off! 

[Brenda E]

I think your voice is fine and I rather enjoyed the show 

Absolutely agreed.  Voice is not an issue.

I too enjoyed the show - cleverly done, I thought.  The last joke was awesome by the way.

[Unrepentant]

I appreciate candid feedback. I know that my voice is masculine and I am trying to decide how (or if) to address it. Also, I know some of my movements are still very strong. But, I think those never give me away anymore. When I get clocked - it is my voice . I have a worn a tank dress about 2 previous times in my life. Wearing this on stage was to directly address my insecurity with my shoulders and arms. (As if just being on stage is not scary enough... it is.)
Kind Regards, Danielle

Wow! You look fabulous! But you are right about the voice. I hope you don't mind me being candid. I closed my eyes, that's what I heard.

[Wynternight]

I loved the act, Dani. You are very brave, far braver than I.

Anna Bolton, You are stunning. From your luxurious hair to your tapered chin. With a gorgeous smile along the way.

I have posted a video of my stand-comedy performance two nights ago in Southern Florida. Keep in mind the average age in Collier County is 68. Yes, 68. So at 51 years old - I am young. The crowd had a few young people but, when I looked at the crowd, the average age of the crowd was pretty close to the average age of the area. 

So, my point, this is a very conservative part of, not just the USA but also, Florida. I did alter my routine a little because of that... I can be much darker. But, I think we have to admit, the reception I receive is warm.

I appreciate candid feedback. I know that my voice is masculine and I am trying to decide how (or if) to address it. Also, I know some of my movements are still very strong. But, I think those never give me away anymore. When I get clocked - it is my voice . I have a worn a tank dress about 2 previous times in my life. Wearing this on stage was to directly address my insecurity with my shoulders and arms. (As if just being on stage is not scary enough... it is.)

Next, I want to write again. There are pockets of the world that are ready to accept women that were mistakenly categorized men at birth... as attractive interesting human beings. We do not have hide like we did 20 (or even 10 years ago.)

Finally, about the comedy itself. I wrote it, of course. If anyone one finds it offensive to transgender people please lets have a discussion. In addition to making people laugh, my goal is to help others see us more like the wonderful, fun people, we are (and... if you have any comic fodder, or tips, please share!)

Lastly, yes, a guy was hitting on me before the show. And yes, in those situations I do reveal that I am transgender. His eyes got big, he took a long pause, he took a deep breath and he kept taking to me. He was very polite. And no, he did not whisper to himself like I said in the last joke! I had that joke written two weeks ago!

Here is the link:

 

If you think it is worth sharing, feel free to share it. I hid for nearly 50 years. That time is over.

Kind Regards, Danielle

[Monica Jean]

"Bruce Jenner was on the front of a Wheaties box . What little boy didn't want to grow up and be like Bruce Jenner?  I finally did it!" 

I'm LOLing hysterically!   GREAT line!!

[Wynternight]

"Bruce Jenner was on the front of a Wheaties box . What little boy didn't want to grow up and be like Bruce Jenner?  I finally did it!" 

I'm LOLing hysterically!   GREAT line!!

Yes! That line had me in tears!!

[Lizandri Roth]

Thanx Damara and barbie for your lovely comments.  I have long legs yes, but they're still a little skinny.  But I'm working on that.  That's why I wear long skirts, and matter of fact, I just love long gypsy skirts.

And gals, you looks fabulous!

[misty2]

This looks like it came right out of Free People catalog. Beautiful. - Danielle

Here's just another something I took of me:

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[misty2]

This lovely photo would not look out of place in an Anthropologie Catalog.

Hi everyone.  Been a while since I've posted anything here.  Anyhoooo, here's a picture I took yesterday.  And in 3 months I'm starting hormones!!!

[misty2]

"Bruce Jenner was on the front of a Wheaties box . What little boy didn't want to grow up and be like Bruce Jenner?  I finally did it!" 

I'm LOLing hysterically!   GREAT line!!

Yes! That line had me in tears!!

Thank you for the happy comments! Bruce and I do come from the same era. Bruce is about 10 years older I think... so I am sure things were even harder for him as a child. I do think it is humorous that our paths are somewhat similar. I mean, I also started my transition before admitting it to everyone. In hindsight perhaps a bit of a mistake. I think he will make it official very soon. I am sure he (I look forward to writing "she") now has a Master Plan. I did not want my joke to be too hard on him. I know it is tough. So I hoped comparing myself to him would soften the edge.  The humor is in our unusual similarities.

As I am sure you all can relate - all of my transgender jokes originate from my real experiences.  - Danielle

[misty2]

[ZeldaHeartLove]

Christmas with the fiance! Life is lovely!

[barbie]

Christmas with the fiance! Life is lovely!

Pretty. I had never seen anybody wearing red hosiery in this site except me. Mine is from Hue (thigh-high tights), purchased in 2004.

barbie~~

[barbie]

I appreciate candid feedback. I know that my voice is masculine and I am trying to decide how (or if) to address it. Also, I know some of my movements are still very strong. But, I think those never give me away anymore. When I get clocked - it is my voice . I have a worn a tank dress about 2 previous times in my life. Wearing this on stage was to directly address my insecurity with my shoulders and arms. (As if just being on stage is not scary enough... it is.)

To my ears, your voice sounds rather neutral, with high pitch. When I was in the US, I had seen many women whose movements are stronger than you.

I do not enjoy being a target of amusement from the audience, but my colleagues and friends sometimes make a joke about my status as transgender without any ill will. Even my kids and wife do it. I accept it.

Anyway, I respect your courage to stand up on the podium (stage?), and share your feeling.



BTW, I am not on HRT, and my voice sounds more masculine than you.

barbie~~

[Damara]

Christmasy attire for work! This was after work so, my eyes were extra baggy. lol!

[galaxy]

Christmas with the fiance! Life is lovely!

You are beautiful!

You are all so beautiful ... how do you do that?
Are you getting magic pills? 

[galaxy]

Christmasy attire for work! This was after work so, my eyes were extra baggy. lol!

Looks great, great hair.

[Ms Grace]

OK ladies, you are all indeed looking fabulous!!