Quote from: Jessie Ann on February 08, 2015, 08:07:33 PM
I went to my first counseling session today and I am going to get an appointment ASAP with an Endo to get on HRT. So here is how I went for my appointment. My counselor thought I should go to the mall right after my appointment to go shopping. Was this an ok look?
now i know most people want to be overly positive on these forums but i think your outfit is to much black, you kind of went for the "going for a funeral look" with all that black, for us trans women we need to use bright colors and blacks to accentuate and hide our bodies differently than most cis girls, i think if you went with a bare leg instead of black nylons with a black heel that would accentuate your legs and reduce the proportions of your upper body with color sizing
i almost always wear a black top/sweater/jacket with a lighter colored bottom, but if i want to wear a non-black top i still choose a dark grey brown blue or green top with a very bright bottom, white/off-white bottoms are a godsend for trans women, and so are light rinse denim jeans,
also accessories draw attention to their locations, so wearing bracelets or rings with large hands only draws more attention to them, same idea with shoulder detailing when you have large shoulders, just go with vnecks and avoid boat neck tops or square neck tops,
i probably got a bit off topic there but these are some clothing choices that i have come to understand for my body shape
i did not intend to be rude if you received it that way, you asked and i responded, just trying to be helpful
