About two months ago, I lost a very good friend.
This is where I met her (a couple years even before it was face to face):
www.lusternia.comIt's a text game, and it takes a
lot of time to really get into. But the addiction happens. Kate was a PvP hero here (there's even an in-game monument to her, created when we learned she died), and I haven't been able to stop playing since.
It's super trans-friendly (hell, you can even RP a trans
character if you want, gender switching is common enough), and nobody bats an eyelash about anything gender/sexuality related. At all. It's a very comfortable place to be.