I have no testes literally. The thing has shrunk. When I do it, nothing comes out and it hurts but it ends quickly. When I say nothing comes out, I mean I do orgasm somehow. My T levels are undectable. I've been on HRT for 14.5 months. The other day I was searched by a female officer and she was grabbing my boobs and shkaing them and my bra to see if there were any drugs there, and whne she looked down there she stilll could not believe I didn't have SRS because of how femme I look. This seems good but then again the other day a guy came up to me told me how beutiful I am and then said "you're a man right?" I love women like you. You're so gorgeous. Ugh. That's not passing. In my defense I was in an area famous for transsexual pro's. Look it up. 12th and Spruce Philadelphia Pa.
So though that's off topic, HRT and passing and everything is so random, at least for me. You can prolly have sex with your wife, but not all the time and chances are she won't like it at all.
Hope that TLDR post helped.