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Getting the right timing, dating men | andie

Started by andie1002, December 16, 2014, 10:51:51 PM

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andie1002

Hi angels so today i believe some of u girls are having a hard time when to expose the secret? When is really the best time for u to tell that ur a t-girl?

Being under hormones for like 1yr and a half, dating can be quite difficult and is a challenge. How do i tell that im a T, when is the right time to tell? And, should I really tell? Those nerve shaking questions must be delivered properly to avoid horrible situations and heart punching feelings. 

ill be honest angels, honesty is the best weapon, timing is too but its more of like a secondary weapon. Agree?

So how do u handle these? Do u confront or just walk away? What are ur strategies? Do they always work?

Share ur anwers below. . .

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suzifrommd

I've been dating women. I've been telling them on the 2nd date, figuring they already like my physical being at that point, so if they decline a 3rd date, I'll know why.

I'm starting to think about dating men. I'll probably see how it goes and be willing to rethink.
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Trillium

When I start thinking about it, it shows on my face so often they ask what's wrong? and I simply tell them. If they don't after a few good opportunities then I know their not for me. I'm not far in my hrt so I usually assume they already know or have at least an inkling.

Off topic but I saw a guy I'd been dating yesterday and he'd been quite nice so far and really seemed to like me. I talked about how I was feeling a bit down about the fact that I'll never be able to get pregnant and his reply was 'well that doesn't mean we can't try' :( so yeah I won't be seeing him again which sucks as it's rare for me to find someone actually  wanting to build a relationship, but I just feel it will feel worse being with someone who turns out uncaring and selfish then anyone at all.
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andie1002

Hi angels @suzifrommd & @trillium. Thank u so much for sharing ur thoughts in this topic.

Guess we are only destined for 1 guy who will understand and accept who and what we are.

Sometimes love isnt really important for me but at the end of the day i still crave for that machismo love.

Stay happy and gorgeous!
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