As it happens, I'm pre-op and pre-hrt. I haven't had the money or the opportunity to even try either. I've been doing what I can naturally by working out, eating particular foods, and keeping my doctor from giving me meds that will cause an increase in my estrogen levels. (Not an easy task since practally every medication for PCOS does that.) So far I have developed a bit of muscle and a preteen sort of facial hair patch. Nothing passable.
Yet, despite my lack of mannish figure, I managed to meet a girl. She's fully accepting of me as a man regardless of my body, and has been both understanding and supportive when it comes to my situation. This is in no small part due to the fact that she is also trans. She's been on hrt for a little under a year, but isn't sure about srs. I've no problem with her not having surgery.
The only issue I have is how to go about being physically intimate. She's uncomfortable penetrating, and I can deal with that since I'm not big on being reminded how many holes I have, but she does enenjoy being penetrated. This is tricky since I lack the proper equipment. There us also the issue of her being quite sensitive, which leaves me afraid I may be too rough or leave her hurting.
How can I give her a better experience? I'm not even worried about my own climax, I can handle that in the shower if need be. I just want to know what can be done so that she can enjoy more and hurt less.
