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How would you go about getting a girlfriend as a transman? Or is it impossible?

Started by ScottyMac, January 07, 2015, 08:48:06 AM

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xKadaBear

I've never had any issues with getting a girlfriend due to being trans. Before I get into any exclusive relationship with a female I always let them know and although they always have questions, they're mostly understanding. I've personally been exclusive with my partner for about two and a half years and she even identifies as straight. But I agree with all the other previous posters, the ability to have a relationship depends on your decision if you want one or not and then you have to put forth the effort to pursue a relationship.
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assorted_human

It's possible and she can be completely fine with you...but she might still be afraid to let anyone know depending on how will you pass and whether or not you're on hormones.
Not to be negative...That was my one experience (I pass a lot, even then, but my pre-T voice). Even though I never really felt like the relationship was validated. I did get the experience of being loved despite being Trans.
Straight women and gay men are pretty attracted to me even without hormones.
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anibioman

For me personally its really easy to date straight girls. I come off as a smart creative attractive cis white boy. All the girls I date are totally cool with my trans status. The girls I'm with generally are smart creative liberals. Being stealth I think helps

Exus

Hmm, well I have a gf, have been with her for 2 months now. She's straight and really awesome, I really love her.
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