I have been finding that the guys don't know what to say or do. If your daughter's boyfriends are already part of family gatherings they may just keep their mouths shut. I have recieved very little in response from the men I know. My brother sent a very brief email, my father went and worked on my Mom's car after voicing his support, one male coworker responded with a brief joke to my coming out email (all of the women penned heartfelt responses) and another gave me a hug when he saw me. The best male response was two of my old drinking buddies. One of them called the other to ask if he would call me and ask what was up after seeing my facebook coming out post. They were the two most stereotypical men I know. And not to sterotype men or anything but they really aren't good at expressing emotions. 😉
