Hi I am 23 yrs old and girlfriend to the most amazing mtf boyfriend/girlfriend. We have been together for 2yrs and 4 months. I am new to forums and shy at times, but I really thought it would be beneficial for both my beloved and I to find some supportive groups. So to start off I would like to tell you our story.
The first time I saw my beloved was in the lunge of our dorm. He sat across the room from me to rest before his next class. I was done for the day and waiting for my friends to get back so we could go shopping. At first I didn't notice he had entered the room, but as soon as I heard him laugh I instantly looked up and i swear i lost my breath and my heart stopped. He was lit up happy, smiling, and laughing. I knew then that I had to get to know him, that he was the one. While I was still having that moment in my head he had left and I didn't see him for the rest of the day. The next day I started to look for him nervously wanting to introduce myself and find out his name. The next few days went by and I would only see him walk by or stop to talk to someone else then sneak away to his room for the rest of the night. Finally Friday was here I spent most of the day down stairs in the lounge doing laundry. I had music videos playing on the tv and I ordered some chinese food. As I was waiting for my food and clothes he came out from his hallway and I instantly smiled and introduced myself....lord help me i was nervous but not missing another chance.
To my amazement he told me his name we got into a wonderful conversation about all sorts of things until he had to go. Sadly I didn't see him again until Monday. I got up extra early got ready and headed down stairs and waited outside hoping to see him. I spotted him and instantly I pretended to be busy on my phone then I started to walk away and behold he came after me... celebration in my head...dance party yeah i got his attention... he walked me to class and he made me smile and laugh the whole time and i just sorta blurted out that he had a gorgeous smile and that he should give me his number so we could hang-out again....then dance party in my head 2....i got his number.
That week we grew closer together and sadly he told me he was in a ldr with a boyfriend, but that he was allowed to experience relations with others...At first I was heart broken and I strongly do not tolerate cheaters but I felt so strongly for him and didn't want to give up so i continued to see him as friends and later as friends with benefits...Right away I noticed something different about him small girlish behaviors or slips that no one would have really noticed...he then eventually came out and told me that he was transgender and right off the bat I was ok with it....personally i am just attracted to any type of person in my mind it doesn't matter what a persons gender is so long as we are happy and in love.
I was happy and very much in love even though at the time he didn't want me as a girlfriend just a friend with benefits. So going on our third month of school and our sorta dating yet not dating thing going on I got a call from an ex and he was on his way to come get me saying that he needed some help. I went with him stupidly and paid the price for it, but when I got back my love was there waiting to rescue me and give me a shoulder to cry on. A couple of weeks later we went with some friends to a house party and he told me "you won my heart. do you know that? I love you and I want to be yours and only yours if you will let me?" ..... he had broken up with his ldr boyfriend weeks prior and was waiting for the right moment to tell me... he said he and his other half have fallen in love with me from the first time I spoke to them and that they realized that and wanted me.....
2yrs and 4 months later my love and I have had many ups and downs mostly because he now lives three hours away from me and isn't allowed to come see me he has to concentrate on school but we are both very much in love and happy. my beloved is still considered male and has recently came out to one of his sisters and brother-in-laws, but we still have a long road ahead and we need support. I have many questions, but for now I am so glad I came across this website.
Thank you for taking the time to read my long intro. I hope we can get the help we need for years to come.
