Well, a glance at my profile pic shows that I do wear a wig. Because I am in a situation where I feel I need to be part-time still and am not on HRT yet, I'm kind of stuck for now.
I can't feel sorry for myself as I'm moving forward relatively fast, but yes, I do feel like a 'dude in a wig' to an extent. I spend part of my week in an area where I can be full-time and some of the dude-in-a-wig feeling comes from my perception of how I'm seen. I'm working on accepting that this isn't MY problem but belongs to those who see me.
I'm so bald that I'm not sure I'll ever be w/o a wig. I know a couple women who have told me they were in as bad shape as I am and have regrown a lot of their hair. Whether this will be true for me is uncertain. I DO look forward to HRT and it's physical and emotional effects.