Stealth - Dating. Your thoughts about dating after FFS and/or SRS

[JenJen2011]

chinee, assuming you do plan to tell him, remember your personal safety. Sometimes guys don't react well to the news...

Agreed. So, when/if you decide to tell him, don't do it when you two are alone. I would tell him over the phone because like Eveline said, you don't know what his reaction might be. He could be sweet to you now but after he finds out, he may turn into a hostile person. That's why I don't agree with intimacy prior to disclosing because look, it sounds like you fell for this guy so if/when you tell him and he possibly tells you that you are not his cup of tea, you will feel VERY hurt. But you never know, maybe he will accept you.

If I were you, I would disclose asap before things get any more serious than they already are. And I truly wish you the best of outcome.

[chinee05]

I get your point girls dont worry... Weve been talking for like a year already and he is not a violent type of guy. He is more of a smart ass good boy material who doesnt drink nor smoke type of guy. But yeah I get your point as Ive heard so many news about transgender crimes (although mostly are preop on the cases I read). So yeah I will always remember to take care of my safety too