At what age did you start fooling around with girls?

[Jill F]

The first girl I kissed was when I was 5. She was my first "girlfriend" lol. Like a 5 year knew what that meant.  But I didn't have any luck in high school. I was trigger shy. List my virginity when I wad 21 to a girl. Its kinda funny because she came out as a lesbian after we dated.

I fooled around with quite a few lesbians and bisexual girls in high school and college and have had an inordinate number of lesbian friends.  Now I think I know why.

[ImagineKate]

Fooling around? 22. Second base. I married her. Divorced her a year and half later. Lotsa issues with her. Crazy woman. Cried in bed a lot. We never could really get romantic. She didn't like my height either. She said she was a Virgin. She was 6 months older.

Prior to that I had one serious girlfriend who was 16 and I was 20 (legal and actually pretty common where I lived). We never could get romantic as her mom would shadow us. Never got beyond hand holding. She's married to a doctor now. We are friends now. We broke up after carnival .

All through school... Nothing. I never could make the first move. I wanted the girl to do that! Hmm. I went to a boys school. Kinda hard to date girls there.

College? I had one girl from Bangladesh who was all over me. Couldn't bring myself to be with her. She had a hot body and was kinda cute but I just wasn't interested.  Around that time I met my wife at work and she made the first move. I lost my virginity to her and we got married a few years later.

From 18-22 I had plenty of girlfriends but they were girlfriends in the sense like how a woman has girlfriends. We would go out clubbing and they would meet guys and I would talk with girls. I had a pretty good social life, very well politically connected so I got invited to a lot of exclusive social events and had VIP status at nightclubs. Met a lot of women who were well connected and interesting and well off but all I could manage was the friend zone. It wasn't them, with alcohol it was actually quite easy to get them in bed, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. See, I had a conscience and wanted to get married first.

[amber roskamp]

I fooled around with quite a few lesbians and bisexual girls in high school and college and have had an inordinate number of lesbian friends.  Now I think I know why.

I think it's cuz lesbians are awesome lol 

[alexbb]

^true

[Mai]

first girlfriend wasnt till 19, and its cause she asked me out.  and while we slept together never had sex, and she ended up cheating on me cause of it after a year.
2nd girlfriend i finally asked out, took over 7 years of knowing her as a close friend before managing to ask her out, and we just went from close friends to closer friends but nothing really happened other than cuddling and dating.
3rd girlfriend once again asked me out and was an online relationship and never ended up going anywhere.

now at 25, most ive done is kissing and cuddling.

[DanielleA]

Back when I was in year one and two I had a girlfriend called Penny. We used to kiss behind the bus stop after school . Since then though I have kissed and been intimate with several people (of both genders). But sexual actions involving my body are and always have been off the table until I have had reassignment. I am 24 yro.

[big kim]

I fooled around with quite a few lesbians and bisexual girls in high school and college and have had an inordinate number of lesbian friends.  Now I think I know why.

I found out long after I left school that Sandra (who later came out as a lesbian) had a crush on me.I was engaged to a bi girl in my early 20s and left desperately sad when she binned me

[Rudy King]

FYI: I'm IS.

I've never been with a girl.  I was not attracted to them. Of course, I've never been with a boy ether, yet.

[noleen111]

As a man - only into girls

My first kiss.. I was 14... with a girl

I lost my virginity  at 17.. to the girl I was dating at the time.. (she never knew i loved to wear skirts) lol

as a woman.. bi-sexual at first now a straight woman

My first kiss - 23 with a guy..
My first sexual experience with a woman 24
my first experience with a guy suppose i lost my virginity again.. (my boyfriend) as a post op woman 24

To have had sex as both sexes allows me to compare the experiences... I prefer sex as a woman... The orgasm are amazing as you feel them all over your body.. and to feel him inside me is amazing.. and I dont mind been at the bottom

[Heather]

Let see first kiss around 13/14 lost my virginity around 16. I just remember hearing guys talking about sex making you a man. I found out quickly that was no truth to that. To be honest I kinda was hoping it would work. Kinda avoided relationships after that until I transitioned.

[silentone]

I had my first kiss at 15. I am a virgin.

[Emmaleigh]

My earliest memories go back to 4 or so. The girl my age next door was my very best friend. Playing doctor with her I learned her parts were way better than mine. We moved, I played kiddie 'sex games' with other girls my age in the new neighborhood. I chased Sandy all over the 1st grade school yard, until she very publicly put me in my place. By 3rd grade, I knew wasn't really fitting in anywhere, and just closed everybody out - but I oh-so-very-much wanted to be with the girls, I just didn't have the right whatever it was I needed - wasn't girl enough, wasn't boy enough. We moved every 2 years or so, so I had no permanency anyway, and 'loner' just became natural, and girls were just something I dreamed & masturbated about, until 10th grade high school. My first-ever-really-serious girlfriend took me under her wing and taught me to kiss. God, she was good, I learned so much about kissing from her! Sex was a year later, with a slightly older girl - I was very bad at it, despite all the how-to & fiction reading I had done - Masters & Johnson, Everything You Ever Wanted to Know, Story of O, and many many others (apparently my parents were more liberated than I thought LOL). After that, a long string - I mean, I love women, everything about them, and Ive always wanted to be them. So what better way to get as close to that desire/need as possible while still denying that's what I wanted? Not that my performance as a "penis" ever really amounted to much, but the rest was pretty good.
Maybe that's all a little TMI, but I didn't see any limitations....