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Has anyone experience irritation by cis females on date sites for being trans

Started by stephaniec, February 06, 2015, 06:10:25 PM

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stephaniec

I was just curious if anyone has experienced a little irritation by cis lesbians by your presence on a dating site as a trans lesbian looking for other lesbians. I'm on a date site and at first I didn't pay much if any attention to it , but on looking back on things I'm kind of wondering if my presence as a trans woman bothers some females by being on the site . Nothing rude , but slightly weird. there's this one female lesbian that's been viewing my profile which states that I'm trans, but in her profile see say she's looking for a real woman with big Breasts and a P----. I'm just curious if any one else has experience any weird reaction by woman stating  there looking for other woman.
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suzifrommd

Quote from: stephaniec on February 06, 2015, 06:10:25 PM
I was just curious if anyone has experienced a little irritation by cis lesbians by your presence on a dating site as a trans lesbian looking for other lesbians. I'm on a date site and at first I didn't pay much if any attention to it , but on looking back on things I'm kind of wondering if my presence as a trans woman bothers some females by being on the site . Nothing rude , but slightly weird. there's this one female lesbian that's been viewing my profile which states that I'm trans, but in her profile see say she's looking for a real woman with big Breasts and a P----. I'm just curious if any one else has experience any weird reaction by woman stating  there looking for other woman.

Online it would be hard to tell. I do pick up coldness from some people when I go to lesbian meetups. I chalk it up to another thing I can't do anything about and I just have to accept.
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Ms Grace

Quote from: stephaniec on February 06, 2015, 06:10:25 PM
...but in her profile see say she's looking for a real woman with big Breasts and a P----.

With a line like that I have to wonder if she isn't just some creepy guy.

I haven't revealed my trans status on the same sex dating sites I've signed up to even though one has stated trans women are welcome. I'm playing it pretty low key for the moment.
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stephaniec

Quote from: Ms Grace on February 06, 2015, 07:09:45 PM
With a line like that I have to wonder if she isn't just some creepy guy.

I haven't revealed my trans status on the same sex dating sites I've signed up to even though one has stated trans women are welcome. I'm playing it pretty low key for the moment.
so far it's been pretty good except for the few weird comments. I've been talking to some that don't seem to mind I'm trans unless they skip my profile
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Mermaid

I've noticed lesbians tend to be awful towards transpeople... I'm very thankful I'm strictly into guys. There's good people and bad people of both sexes, but you'd think lesbians would be slightly more accepting of other people and their differences; nope. They're even prejudiced against other lesbians, the whole lipstick vs butch conflict.

Here's a link for a thread about transsexuals in a lesbian forum. I should warn people beforehand that some posts are potentially really offensive.

http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/topic/5443643/1/

So yeah, I see so many transsexuals with this huge admiration for "women and their softness", acting like they're all nice and guys are the devil... well... I must say I don't understand why. Women-based forums and websites that I've visited tend to be insanely toxic, they're incredibly mean to each other.
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Ms Grace

Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Joanne Feliz

As if anyone would chose to be transgender.

The level of ignorance is staggering.

They have studied the brains of transgendered people and female brain.  The areas that are associated with the female part of the brain are identical in transgendered people and females.  Male brains are differently apparently.

This is what a psychiatrist on tv said but I have no reason to doubt that.
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