When I first started transitioning, like most of us, I was really self-conscious about people staring at me. I remember walking out of my apartment building and noticed 2 guys across the street immediately stop talking mid-sentence and start staring at me. I was freaked out for a second, then one of them said "Daaayyymmm girl" with the associated look, and I was creeped out instead, but at least he saw me as a girl. The next time I caught someone staring was a woman at Whole Foods. When I walked closer to her, I noticed she wasn't staring at me as a person, but at my boots. She apologized for staring, and asked me where I bought them. Then there was the time I was out in full makeup and I hear "what do you think this is, Halloween?" and the first thing that goes through my mind is that he's making fun of me. So I turn to look at him, and it turns out that was directed at a little kid wearing a towel as a superhero cape. It was at that point I stopped worrying about being stared at, and just started living my life. People are going to think what they are going to think, and most of the time they are staring at something other than me being transgender.