Oh darn, things are still not good. After going to the endocrinologist for my fatigue and doing certain tests for catecholamines he said he couldn't find anything and that, based on his opinion, "every test is perfect" - despite some being within limits but far from optimum. I told him I felt even worse with every passing week but he just dismissed it. On the 2nd - and last- session I also told him that the reason I'm so stressed is that I'm transgender and I'm having difficulties with my PhD, finding a job etc. He just referred me to a psychiatrist and hurried out of his office. I tried to insist that this wasn't enough and that I needed help not just on the gender issue but also regarding my fatigue. Instead of replying he hurried behind a door and disappeared. It's like he didn't want to bother trying to figure out what's wrong, despite being payed ~140 euros per session.
A couple of days after that I went to a rheumatologist to check if there is a possibility for a autoimmune disease and she prescribed a battery of tests, the results of which I'll have in a month.
Ideally I should live somewhere else, alone but it's very difficult trying to juggle both my PhD - part time projects, finding a job, dealing with my health problems and dealing with the negativity of my parents (telling me things like if I continue being angry like that, not trusting doctors etc, I'll end up in a psychiatric ward). For example my father insists on sitting with him reading endocrinology books while I'm pretty sure some of what he's reading doesn't apply to me. I know educating oneself is important but I can't stand reading with him.
I'm really afraid my fatigue is because of kidney problems. I want to some tests (like microalbumin/creatinine ratio - ACR) and estimated glomerular filtration rate-eGFR) to find out. My father tried to argue that these are pointless and can't help me but nevertheless I need to do them.
Ps. It's so disheartening when because of stress you've ended up with serious health problems and your parents still don't support you.