co-workers

[michelle82]

So i've come out to a few of my female friend/co-workers. One was really excited for me, but the other seemed to have no reaction at all. I basically told her that I'm transgender and will be under going a transition over the next year or so. 

It was weird because she didn't ask me any questions or really say much, I think it sort of made her slightly uncomfortable and awkward. Obviously not everyone is going to have a positive reaction. Should I bother trying to educate her at share anything at this point? or wait until she approaches me with any questions?  I feel like I want to explain more about why and what I will be doing, but she didn't really give me that opportunity.

She ultimately said that she supports me and is there for anything i need. but maybe the topic is just too uncomfortable for her?

[Elis]

I wouldn't say anything about it until she asks, otherwise it'll be awkward. Her not saying anything after you told her seems to be a classic sign that she's uncomfortable, which is understandable. I wouldn't avoid her though, keep talking to her the same as you did so she knows you're the same person as before and again to not make it awkward between you two.

[michelle82]

thanks Elis i think that sounds like a good way to handle it!

[cindianna_jones]

These days, I think everyone pretty much knows about us and what we go through. If they have questions, just let them know you are available to answer them. Don't push it any further. Most people who know you will feel uncomfortable at first. Some will get over it and some won't. But don't worry about that either! Your life is in front of you. There are millions of potential friends to be made. If you will be a friend, you will have friends.

Chin up
Cindi