My Ex had been friends for ten years. He had been through two bad relationships and we finally got together and we were inseparable for two years. He always called me his other half-- and I always tried to push back the fact he liked a friend of his better than me. I tried to keep self doubt about it away and well...
He ran off with her.
I don't know what I did wrong, I gave him everything. Even gave him a place to stay when his parents lost their house. I always supported him, emotionally, financially, even if it was a struggle. And if there was a disagreement, I either overlooked it or talked it out and that was rare.
With her, there went through some stuff, she verbal abused him, told him to talk talking to him for days-- I guess she gave him better emotional support and all of a sudden had money to help him move away.
Then to top it off-- even those who cheated on him and abused him in the past he kept as friends. But me? He cut me out of his life completely. Like I did something terrible. And if I did, we won't tell me.
He just told me he wasn't worthy and not contact him and leave him alone.
What is going on? Was I bad??? Was she better? Why lie and say you love me then leave with just a vague letter? Then in text tell me to eff-off like I offended his entire family?!
