Quote from: Auroramarianna on April 01, 2015, 02:23:27 AM
I am sorry but I am having a hard time understanding her view.
No problem, I can explain it fairly easily.
It has to do with my personality, and the kinds of relationship dynamics I fit into.
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Personality wise, while I know where I stand on things and have an opinion, I am very much submissive.
I like having doors opened for me. I like having my coat taken off and put back on for me. I like and really enjoy all the 'female privileges of chivalry' that are so frowned upon.
Relationship/dynamic wise, I like to be with a dominant man.
I like to please him. I like to be told what to do. I thrive on a man's approval. I'm not talking about an unintelligent orge of a man of course - simply a man who is 'on top'.
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These are not weaknesses. This is the way I am. This is what I want, and on many levels, need.
So, on paper I am almost stereotypically anti-feminist. But I am not against feminism, at all.
What I mean is - not fitting the bill of a feminist does not make me less of a woman. Nor does it make me more of a woman.
Hence, one does not need to be a feminist to be a woman, or vice versa.