Hi there. As you can probably guess, I'm very new to all this, so I apologize in advance for stupid questions/thoughtless turns of phrase. I'm trying hard, and learn quickly.
I mentioned this in the "Introduction" thread, and was hoping for some pointers. I am middle-aged and very new to my non-binary nature (although in retrospect it's clear it's been inside me a long, long time and I've just been pushing it aside/denying it/pretending it's not the case--I'm sure folks can relate). I have no current plans to transition or even cross-dress, but it's not impossible that may change as I continue to get adjusted to my new perspective. In the meantime, it's mostly discovering new things that I enjoy during sexual play, new types of physical bodies and presentations I'm finding myself attracted to, ways I would like my own body to be sexually different, etc.
As such, where is a good support community/forum for newbies like myself? This set of Forums overall seems like it might be good, but I'm not sure where to dive in; it's all a bit daunting. And I very much don't want to do something stupid, something equivalent to, say, using the word "
>-bleeped-<", but am very aware I probably will.
So any suggestions? I'm already working through Kate Bornstein's "My New Gender Workbook" and am finding that very helpful. What other suggestions might folks have?
Thanks.