Hi Candi,
no, not exactly.
when i said i allow myself to be me, i meant female.
i do not "talk, walk, eat, joke as a guy". i'm so tired of all that!
i routinely exclude myself from guy talk and always hang out with the girls.
when i said i don't present as a female, i meant i'm not dressing as a female. but as for the personality, yes, totally female. i guess i wouldn't call that "presenting" because i don't feel that i'm presenting anything, i'm just being myself.
so, yeah, people have said things...