I think it's really good that you got out of that therapy relationship. When I was first transitioning(a million years ago) I had to drive three hours 1-2 times a month from college to my therapist. Though she kept pushing back the timeline which was really frustrating since I was 20 and wanted to start hormones ASAP. I really didn't need any therapy just the approval and it ended up taking a year. I really regret not trying to find someone else sooner since I sort of knew she wasn't a good fit for me. Though it was a lot harder to find resources back then.
Now, I'm going through the process to find a phd person to write a letter for surgery finally and it's definitely bringing up the bad experience of before so I'm hoping to avoid a therapist that isn't the right match this time.
I hope you're able to find someone who's a better match for you!
