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Started by lemons, April 03, 2015, 04:48:56 PM

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lemons

Quote from: Serena ♡ on April 05, 2015, 03:04:42 AM
I think that you can become very passable, and have you been on hrt?

This is like the third time I've stated this.  HRT for 3 years now.
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Serena

Quote from: lemons on April 05, 2015, 11:02:01 AM
This is like the third time I've stated this.  HRT for 3 years now.

Oh ok I'm sorry
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Pia Bianca

Okay, I risk being late on this topic. I have to give my opinion even if it doesn't bring any new information.

I'd gender all pictures as female except the one with two persons on it. I can only see a beautiful female. I'm sorry but I have to tell you that I cannot see enough male characteristics to actually gender you male. In fact the underwear picture is hot. (Did I mention I attribute myself lesbian?)

I'd guess the problem is familiarity. You are very familiar with yourself being male so you only see those elements which affirm your view. I'm not familiar with your old self as others in this thread aren't. We don't have any familiarity to rely on, so we have to judge by the whole.

That said, I don't know you. I might be absolutely wrong with my guess. But I still want to encourage you to embrace your feminine body parts. (Cis females have male body parts too.)
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lemons

Quote from: Pia Bianca on April 06, 2015, 01:43:19 AM
Okay, I risk being late on this topic. I have to give my opinion even if it doesn't bring any new information.

I'd gender all pictures as female except the one with two persons on it. I can only see a beautiful female.


You mean this picture?  because uhh...I'm the one of the right in it.
Quote from: lemons on April 04, 2015, 08:52:41 AM


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Pia Bianca

Quote from: lemons on April 06, 2015, 10:41:10 AM
You mean this picture?  because uhh...I'm the one of the right in it.
Yeah, this is the only picture in which I'd gender you male. All other pictures I'd gender female.
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lemons

Quote from: Pia Bianca on April 06, 2015, 02:44:52 PM
Yeah, this is the only picture in which I'd gender you male. All other pictures I'd gender female.

Yeah, that was pre transition me.
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LizMarie

You do realize that almost all runway models are 5'8" to 6'2" tall? A few are shorter than that but the general model is tall. And downtown in Houston I see scads and scads of tall women.

Three out of four of my closest cisgender female friends are 5'11", 5'11" and 6'0" respectively.

I think you need to work on visual cues, maybe voice (?), and mannerisms. Visual cues might be enhanced via choice of clothing style and hair length especially.
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risulli

It is never "Too late" to transition. You transition whenever you are ready.
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stephaniec

I'm 63 I wish I could of started hormones at 15 , but I was unlucky to have been born in the 50's when everything was a communist plot. Oh how I wish I could of had the proper life , but the cards played out differently . I'm just thankful for the time I have left on this planet I can do it the way it's supposed to be.
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lemons

Quote from: LizMarie on April 06, 2015, 08:34:06 PM
You do realize that almost all runway models are 5'8" to 6'2" tall? A few are shorter than that but the general model is tall. And downtown in Houston I see scads and scads of tall women.

Three out of four of my closest cisgender female friends are 5'11", 5'11" and 6'0" respectively.

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For the last time.  My height.  Does not bother me.  For this exact reason.
Rather, it's my frame.  It's large.  Larger than it would be on a cis woman that height.  This is what I'm getting at.
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kelly_aus

Quote from: lemons on April 07, 2015, 10:08:55 PM
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For the last time.  My height.  Does not bother me.  For this exact reason.
Rather, it's my frame.  It's large.  Larger than it would be on a cis woman that height.  This is what I'm getting at.

I guess you are working on some kind of 'average' size.. Guess what? There's no such thing as average, at least anywhere but purely statistical values. I wish I could show you a pic of an old friend, Melissa.. She was about 5'4ish and a good 4-5" wider across the shoulders than me..  She also didn't have the most feminine facial features. No one ever called her a man, at least not based on her looks/build.. Her attitude was a different matter. I can say with complete authority Melissa is completely cis. Or I could talk about my friend Belinda, who likewise would fail your frame size test.. Or Emma.. Or any number of other cis women I know or have met. You seem to be holding yourself to some kind of impossible to meet standard that many cis women don't meet.

The 'ideal' figure only exists on paper.. And the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can get on with life.
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Mallory

Yeah, I went through a ton of pictures of women the other day, all with varying body types and so on; none of them had shoulders that were shorter in width than their hips. Some were even, but most were broader. Also, statistically speaking the average size of a woman's head in proportion to their body is larger than a males.

Who I hope to like like body wise: Ronda Rousey.
Carpe diem.



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Zoetrope

The cheeky little goblin inside me wants to say 'but you're pretty' just to bring on the fifth-and-final-time ...

:~D
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Mariah

Ok folks. It's wonderful that we all share pictures, but once you get tired of them being on here and want them removed all you need to do is remove them from the image host. By doing this, they will be removed from Susan's too. Thanks
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lemons

What if you use them elsewhere?
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Mariah

As far as this site goes it goes for everywhere on this site except the gallery. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: lemons on August 10, 2015, 06:49:11 PM
What if you use them elsewhere?
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask me.
[email]mariahsusans.orgstaff@yahoo.com[/email]
I am also spouse of a transgender person.
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