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Started by ducky ~ day, September 08, 2007, 11:36:58 PM

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ducky ~ day

ok late last year i told my mom that i wanted to be a girl is when i thought i was MTF it went kind of okish i gusse it dodnt go very bad but it didnt go well. after talking and thinking i do not think or feel that i am MTF matter of fact i am not sure what i am. Thou i knwo i have gender iusses. I been talking with a therapist online she is not a GT but an therapist non the less. I been talking with her for about 4 weeks when i tryed to hang myself why i did this a lot fo reosns just things where becomeng oeverwhewling life and not knowing what i am, i was liveing on my own and in FL after talkign with her ( the therapist) for about 3 weeks i giave her the # to my mom she talked to my mom and just told her lil about where i am at in life and that i was derpessed and was going to be homeless in Oct. well i moved back in with my mom about a week ago. I have been talking with the therapist online even after i moved back and she knows about my gender iusses well i was talking about it the other nite and she told me that when she talked to my mom it kind of came up and she told me that my mom told her that she will try to understand and go to suport groups anywho how do i talk to my mom and take back about bing MTF its not relly somethng yo can say and take back easy and then try to say i do not knwo what i am thou i dont think / feel like MTF so any tips or help how do i talk with my mom about this and get her some info or a place to talk about it and a place for me to talk about as well in RL and or online?
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jsavage

Sorry to read about your issues.  Please get professional help now!  Find a local therapist and involve your Mom.
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Berliegh

With my mum I tried to break things to her very gradually over a long period of time......she was aware that I was very feminine as a child and teenager and dressed accordingly from an early age and was quite excepting. But to present the fact that I wanted to change my body 'physically' is a very different kettle of fish.....so I went in gently and dropped in small hints now and again so as not to load her with it straightaway.

Some people go straight in like a bull in a china shop....I'm going to change into a women' ...without thinking about their parents feelings and in some cases are totally rejected by their parents......I think the softer gradual approach is better.....
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