This whole cognitive dissonance thing is pretty funny. When I first told my family I got the typical reactions because I no longer fit in their perception of reality. Luckily, however, my family was super accepting. Funny thing is I still look very much like the boy I was, but now my cousins and friends have been undressing in front of me like I'm the same.
And you know why, cause I am!
Find people who care about you, not what you look like. Looks will go away. We will all get gray and wrinkled(if we're even that lucky). So the people in your life who can't get past a boy who thinks she's a girl that looks like a boy, well, one simple statement...
Bleep em! They don't deserve your beauty. Find people who do