When can you start exploring female sexuality?

[Jean24]

Sorry if this is the wrong place, I'll try not to be explicit!

So I was in the closet for a long time and how I felt about myself bothered me enough to not pursue any relationships or anything sexual. I was wondering at what point you can kind of expect to start experiencing female sexuality? I know some members report being able to after being on hormones for so long or what not. When is the average though?

[Ellesmira the Duck]

For me this was gradual, and something my boyfriend comments on often, he assumed that my drive would go down on hormones, after maybe 4 months of noticed I stopped self gratifying by like 95% but generally was always still up for intimacy and I explained it as being far more mental now, it just...feels good in a different way. I honestly like this better.

[stephaniec]

I don't know I'm still waiting, but I do fantasize one heck of a lot on hormones

[HoneyBunny]

In my experience it just happens on its own. It is not like one day I woke up and said to myself that I am not going to explore it. For me, things just organically went into place. I have had sex with another transwoman and guys before. I just kind of let myself explore that sort thing. With the transgirl it was pretty much 50/50 where both did a little of both, but with the guys it was just standard flat on my back. I kind of want to have sex with a ftm and a cisgirl too. I wonder how it will be post op though. I do think there will be a lot more to experience and learn so that will be my answer, you will start experiencing female sexuality until the day you die even without hormones. I just think the most important thing is to enjoy it most of all though.

[Jessica Merriman]

I agree with everyone, slowly. You have to get comfortable with yourself first. Once that has happened you are much more free to express yourself honestly. HRT sure helped though!!!

[Darren]

By exploring female sexuality do you mean, ORGASAM. Yes there I said it...the O word. Its a wonderful subject to bring up if that's what you meant. I don't think its talked about enough but then again what do I know. I'm new here. I found that when I started hormones my %^&^&% shrank which I did not mind at all, in fact I liked it. What I did not like what the absence of any sexual feelings down there. I don't care about my penis much. Its there and in order to climax I have to touch it but its out of commission. I'm wondering if adding a tiny bit of testosterone to the mix it would help. I started hormones and was on them for two months and had never gone that long without cumming so I stopped. Not a good thing because now I want to try it again but no ones been able to tell me if my experience was normal or not. Can others function when on female hormones. By function I don't mean getting it up. I mean having an orgasam...cumming.