I haven't even started doing anything for transition yet and I get stared at all the time when I pick up or drop off my son at school or even at the store its just a normal thing with them and they really don't know that they are doing it. it bothered me at first but I soon got over it and now if one of them stares at me hard for a little while I talk to them (I get the feeling that's what they want to do anyway but they don't know what to say or do) keeping the topics light and social and they will move on after a minute or two.